Question All of It

When we think about our health do we believe everything we read or are told?  Do we rely on a doctor’s prognosis to determine what happens to us?  There is plenty of evidence that supports the stories of a doctor giving the “six months to live” prognosis and the patient dies in six months.

What if we start questioning everything?  How would our lives look if we opened our minds to the possibilities instead of believing what we think is true?  Our thinking is being constrained by our perspectives and preconceived notions that are learned “facts” and notions.  When we question all of it we can stop making errors in assumptions.

I find it helpful to sit quietly in meditation and allow my body to give me answers.  Our minds get in our way.  We accept dogma as truth.  We tend to believe the “experts”.  What I have found is that everything is in constant flux including “facts” espoused by the experts.  The world’s dogma was once a belief that the earth is flat.  We now know that isn’t true.  It took questioning and researching those questions to get to the point of changing the system.  This is where I find meditation very helpful.  It is also where Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapy can play a huge role.

My body knows what it needs.  My mind, my intellect, does not because it operates in a world where the facts rule.  And the facts of today can very well be the fallacies of tomorrow.  The Intelligence of my body and the larger universal connection that we enjoy through our fluid system is awe-inspiring. 

When I put my hands on another person I give them the permission to let go and let their Truth prevail.  Their truth is always different from my Truth and that is the ultimate gift that I can give them.  Their body resonates with the energetic field that is created when judgment is suspended.  My intention is staying present – much like a meditation.  Whatever needs to arise will show up.  I say “hello” and “welcome” and truly breathtaking shifts in the physical body, the mental body and the spiritual body can happen.

Many times there is a story behind the body’s disruption in its expression of health.  Our attachment to that story is oftentimes our downfall.  For whatever reason we may not be ready to let go of the drama surrounding it.  Oftentimes we aren’t even aware there is a story connecting the two seemingly separate issues.  From a holistic perspective it is all connected.  It is our awareness that is disconnected.  But, we do not need to be mentally aware of this connection in order for Health to arise.  Our body is aware and can make the changes needed without ever recreating the drama that might have caused the problem in the first place.

In the presence of a caring therapist who allows the body to express itself through its fluid system, which is also intricately coupled to our nervous system all possibilities open up.  I am not adding anything into the mix.  I am allowing the internal environment to have a voice.  The compression we have carried around with us is allowed to expand and shift to an inclusive energetic blueprint where ALL possibilities become a part of the answer.

It’s similar to looking at a building’s blueprint and asking ourselves, “If I moved this door over here and replaced that wall with a window what new and exciting possibilities can I experience?”  We never know unless we investigate the questioning.  We open ourselves to the expansiveness of the Universal Health that exists at the core of each of us in our own unique blueprint.  This is the priceless benefit of Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapy, a hands-on treatment uniquely different for each of us.

Honoring Ourselves

I was quite busy last month and I forgot to take a container of food out of my refrigerator and dispose of it.  When I realized it was in there and I had no idea what it was, I opened it to the aroma of rotting food.  I jumped back and said “That really smells!”  I reminded myself that it was suppose to smell because that’s nature’s way of protecting us from eating what might make us sick.

Nature tries to warn us against hurts we inflict upon ourselves, as well.  Pain, conflict and frustration are all ways the universe tells us to change our course of action.  Do we listen?  Usually not.  At least not until we get it drilled into our heads for the umpteenth time.

We tolerate dysfunctional relationships, abusive business dealings, addictions, and numerous other situations that are bad for our level of health.  We tell ourselves that we are forgiving and selfless to put up with these situations.  “Next week I’ll talk to my boss”, or “he’s a good person and he can change.”  What we really need to hear our inner voice saying is that we need to do it differently.

In training a dog we reward them when they do what we expect them to do.  If we didn’t praise them how would they know they were doing it correctly?  If only we were so smart.  How many times must we not be rewarded until we climb out of the hurtful situation?

This is one way that Craniosacral therapy can be quite helpful.  When we lie on the table and allow our body to speak to us in the quietness of the present moment with a witness to help keep us aware we have all kinds of revelations of the spirit.  Our answers reside there.  All we need to do is to listen.

Honoring ourselves to live in the light and goodness of what the world offers is the better way to live our lives.  We need to tell the truth about our pain before we can excavate our way out of it.  The best way to live a pain and conflict-free life is to love ourselves.  Once we learn that lesson we need not become entangled in the frustration again.  We’re worth it.

Random Acts of Kindness

If we were to look at our body as being the tip of the iceberg, we’d understand that what we see is just a very small part of what determines whether we’re in good health.  There’s much below the surface that plays such an integral part in the wholeness of our entire structure; and unless we become ill, we might not even be aware of its existence. 

The metaphor of the iceberg allows us to understand what it takes to enjoy a healthy life and to see that what affects the body is more than what meets the eye.  It illustrates that good health is more than addressing just the needs of the physical body, but concerns the needs of the soul and the mind as well.  It reveals why healing is a way of living and being.

There is an old philosophical truth about healing:  It’s not just a science, it’s a way of living.  It should happen every moment, not just when we become fearful that some ache or symptom might be an indicator of something more serious.  If we’re experiencing illness, healing requires that we look inside ourselves for the hidden motives behind the illness.

Using the metaphor of the iceberg, the layer directly below the surface is behavior, which represents how we act, what we do, what we eat, how we interact with people, how we manage the stressors in our life, how we take care of ourselves, and how we safeguard ourselves against illness.

Practicing acts of kindness towards ourselves is paramount in keeping our bodies functioning well.  Most of us take better care of our cars than we do ourselves.  Taking time each day for some quiet introspection is important for us to get in touch with what is happening with our inner health.  And by design that touches every other area of our total being.  I’m trying to practice random acts of kindness to myself each day.  I hope that it makes a difference in other’s lives as well.